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Men Don't Tell

  • TV Movie
  • 1993
  • 15
  • 1h 35m
IMDb RATING
6.6/10
440
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Men Don't Tell (1993)
Drama

This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.

  • Director
    • Harry Winer
  • Writers
    • Selma Thompson
    • Jeff Andrus
  • Stars
    • Peter Strauss
    • Judith Light
    • James Gammon
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.6/10
    440
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Harry Winer
    • Writers
      • Selma Thompson
      • Jeff Andrus
    • Stars
      • Peter Strauss
      • Judith Light
      • James Gammon
    • 14User reviews
    • 1Critic review
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 nomination total

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    Peter Strauss
    Peter Strauss
    • Ed MacAffrey
    Judith Light
    Judith Light
    • Laura MacAffrey
    James Gammon
    James Gammon
    • Jack MacAffrey
    Noble Willingham
    Noble Willingham
    • Riley
    Stephen Lee
    Stephen Lee
    • Chuck
    Mary Kane
    • Susan
    Richard Gant
    Richard Gant
    • Pope
    Reni Santoni
    Reni Santoni
    • Rueben
    Carroll Baker
    Carroll Baker
    • Ruth
    Ashley Johnson
    Ashley Johnson
    • Cindy
    Michael Rand
    • Alan MacAffrey
    Cliff Bemis
    Cliff Bemis
    • Danny
    Nick Angotti
    • Greg
    Guy Killum
    Guy Killum
    • Cop #1
    Katherine Cortez
    Katherine Cortez
    • Cop #2
    David Correia
    • Foreman
    Lynn Tufeld
    Lynn Tufeld
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    Don Maxwell
    Don Maxwell
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    • Director
      • Harry Winer
    • Writers
      • Selma Thompson
      • Jeff Andrus
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    10GOLFFRED

    Looking for a copy of "Men Don't Tell"... Please help!!!

    Hi, PLEASE TRY TO HELP!!! I have spent hours looking for a way to find a copy of this important movie. However, no matter where I have looked there has been no way to locate the origin and/or place where I could turn to find a copy of: "Men Don't Tell" with Peter Straus. Apparently the made-for-TV movie has been shown several times on TV, but can't be found in any Vedio store (even big ones). I'm looking to purchase a copy.

    Can anyone inform me how/where to find it?

    Thanks to all who try.

    Sincerely, Fred GOLFFRED@AOL.com
    8harrygutierrez

    Need to find owner

    I have not been able to see this movie all the way through because I never know when it's showing on TV. Also, I have to be careful not to draw attention to my search for it because I don't know how my wife would take it. The subject matter is seriously personal and there has never been any other movie addressing it, that I'm aware of. My wife has a violent temper that I did not find out about until after we were married. After 25 years of marriage she is finally mellowing out but she refuses to discuss her abusive actions nor to seek professional help. I have done all that I can to keep our children from being emotionally ruined and they are able to discuss it now that they are older.

    I am looking for 2 copies of the movie on DVD. Apparently, CBS first aired it in 1993 but does not own it. So, they cannot copy it.

    I'm trying to figure out who owns it and can provide copies.

    I can use some help.
    10lepricon3

    Men should tell

    I've worked with battered men for over 10 years and know that this is a significant problem, but there is an even worse one. Violent mothers account for 55% of fatal child abuse, even when custody and time spent with the children are taken into consideration, according to the US Justice Dept. study, "Murder in Families." Fathers account for 8%, stepmothers/girlfriends for 9%, and stepfathers/boyfriends for 10%. We are working on building a shelter for fathers and children in Kansas City, but it is a slow process, but one is needed. Studies on domestic violence against women show that 39% of the victims are men, but you only find that out by looking at the charts that come with the studies. The summaries don't mention this, preferring to only address violence against women.
    10ttaskmaster

    A story that NEEDED to be told!!!

    OK, so this is a made-for-TV movie, so don't go expecting Ocar-winning performances..... Adopt that outlook and this film will have you blown over!! For such an unusual subject matter as a beaten husband, it takes a very good actor to play that role convincingly. The character must be portrayed not as a cowering weakling, nor an angry, affronted paragon of masculinity... But as a normal, real man. There is only ever one REAL man in the movie industry and he's right here in the lead role - Peter Strauss.

    By Real Man, I do mean that he responds as most real men would when suddenly battered by the one person they love beyond all else... Out of love. People who love stay with their beloved, as long as they can and you can feel every moment of angst in Strauss's performance. Even at the very end, you can tell he has nothing but absolute love for his wife and what he does is done because of that love.

    This is my first film with Judith Light and several other cast members. Light's performance as a loving yet unhinged wife did come across as slightly over-the-top, but that just makes it necessarily dramatic and hammers home effectively the years of abuse in the 95 minutes such a production is limited to.

    The supporting cast too deliver their roles well, but as with all such acting styles that find their way into TV movies, you have to watch closely to see the best of it as, just like in real life, it is very subtle.

    For some reason, this film attracted a lot of negativity from certain womens groups. Perhaps because, like most people, they don't believe such a thing could ever be true and are just as shocked when they discover it is far more prevalent than anyone could imagine.

    Conclusion: Another ABSOLUTE must see from the Strauss repertoire!!
    8codenamePHOENIX

    Men Can Be Victims TOO

    Good film from begining to end, it shows that men can be victims of abuse too. There needs to be more movies addressing this subject and more conversations about abuse against men. The movie does a good job of showing how and why men don't tell about the abuse, because they are afraid of not being believe and being seen as weak.

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    • Trivia
      Is based on a true story.
    • Goofs
      Laurie's hair changes from long to short & back again from scene to scene.
    • Quotes

      [last lines]

      Laura MacAffrey: Ed, what are you going to tell everyone - about why we're splitting?

      Ed MacAffrey: [after a long pause] The truth.

    • Connections
      Featured in The 51st Annual Golden Globe Awards (1994)

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    • Release date
      • March 14, 1993 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Ellos no lo cuentan
    • Filming locations
      • Wilmington, Los Angeles, California, USA(Shipyard scene)
    • Production companies
      • Daniel H. Blatt Productions
      • Nancy Bein Productions
      • Lorimar Television
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 35 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.78 : 1

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