Beautifully shot, although I wish the copy on YT was in better quality, good plot, stunning lead actress, generally good performances. Duyen's plight feels real, her decision makes sense to her from what we see, Khang's predicament is believable and his decision realistic and heartfelt, and even Duyen's deceased husband is very genuine in the scenes he appears. Her little boy is also very natural.
However it suffers from a few scenes that overdramatize emotions, because they are glaring in the context of everything else that feels very authentic and even subtle.
I liked the singing part and I was surprised that Duyen could sing that well all of a sudden. That song was very emotionally charged and Khang watching her sing was a well thought-out scene. Also, the scenes at the ghost temple are very interesting, and I understand the censorship didn't like them very much so a lot had to be cut out. What remains is still interesting though. Communist China also censors stories about ghosts I think, I don't understand what they believe the danger is there.
Anyway, I believe the movie could have been much better without the excessive melodrama of a few scenes so I just couldn't rate it higher, but it is a powerful story told well so I understand the historical and cultural relevance of the movie, I just cannot love it as much as others do. The cinematography is beautiful and if it could have been restored the movie would look absolutely gorgeous.